Sindinamvepo kugonana zoposa 10 Zaka

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Zoyendetsedwa ndi Guardian.co.ukNkhaniyi lotchedwa “Sindinamvepo kugonana zoposa 10 Zaka” linalembedwa ndi Pamela Stephenson Connolly, pakuti The Guardian Lolemba 21 December 2015 08.00 UTC

Ine ndine mkazi 46 wazaka amene sanagone kugonana zoposa 10 Zaka. Ichi chinali konse dongosolo, koma ine ndiri Anapitirizabe bwalo lopitirira: I nkhawa zimene ndingachite chiyani kwa mwamuna angathe ndi wautali iwo akupitirira, koyipitsitsa zifika. Ine sindikufuna kukhala moyo wanga wonse popanda kugonana ndi chikondi.

Pokhala theoretically wokonzeka kugwirizana kugonana ndi munthu wina ndi bwino sitepe. Mudzakhala ndi kutenga mavuto, Komabe, ndipo pali chitetezo pang'ono aliyense motsutsana kusowa chitetezo ndi embarrassments, kaya pogonana anakumana akhale. Pamenepo, kukhala poyera kuti kukana - ngakhale kunyozedwa - ndi mbali yofunika ya ntchito yanu m'tsogolo. Pamene tikusowa mtendere amapezeka, basi kumuuza wekha kupuma ndi kulekerera izo.

Pakadali pano, kuyesa ndimakonda kugwirizana ndi ena chabe kusangalala ndi ubwenzi. Ngati inu Musalole kukhala wochezeka, posakhalitsa kapena kenako inu Mwachibadwa ndikumane amene adzakopedwa. Panthawiyo, inu kwenikweni kuchoka chitonthozo chanu woyendera nthambi ndi tiyeni chilakolako ako njira.

Chikole kuti amalandira thupi lanu kuyambira tsopano, ndi kuvomereza mfundo yoti inu oyenera zosangalatsa. Umodzi uliwonse munthu akhoza kukhala wokongola wina. Ndipo musati mudandaule za maganizo olakwika angathe abwenzi 'za yaitali kusakwatira wanu: mulibe kuwauza, koma ngati muchita, Anthu ambiri amangokhala kuganiza inu mfundo zabwino.

• Pamela Stephenson Connolly ndi yamaganizo US ofotokoza okhazikika matenda kugonana.

• Ngati mukufuna malangizo kuchokera Pamela Stephenson Connolly pa nkhani zogonana, mutitumize ife kufotokoza mwachidule nkhawa zanu private.lives@theguardian.com (chonde musamupatse ZOWONJEZERA). mlungu uliwonse, Pamela amasankha vuto lina kuyankha, umene lofalitsidwa Intaneti ndi kulisindikiza. Iye chisoni kuti iye sangathe kulowa mu makalata munthu.

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