kihai i ahau i takoto hoki mo 10 tau

I haven’t had sex for over 10 years

 

Powered e Guardian.co.ukTēnei tuhinga ui “kihai i ahau i takoto hoki mo 10 tau” i tuhituhia e Pamela Stephenson Connolly, mo te Guardian ki te Mane 21 Hakihea 2015 08.00 UTC

ahau he wahine-tau 46-tau e kore i nei i takoto hoki mo 10 tau. e kore ko te mahere tenei, engari au raru i roto i te porohita mau tonu ahau: manukanuka ahau kia nui e pā ana ki te pehea i taea e ahau te whakamārama i tenei ki te hoa pūmanawa me te roa haere te reira i runga i, te kino riro te reira. e kore ahau e hiahia ki te noho i te toenga o toku ora, kahore sex me te aroha.

Te rite takahi ki hono moepuku ki tetahi tangata ko te taahiraa matamua pai. Ka whai koe ki te tango i te tahi mau tūponotanga, ahakoa, a reira he iti korero hoki te tangata ki ahoaho me embarrassments, noa'tu te moepuku ite ai ratou. i roto i te meka, te tuwhera ki te pato'iraa - ara manuki - ko ha konga mahu'inga o koutou mahi i mua. A, no te puta hūhi, korero ki noa koe ki te manawa me te aro ki te reira.

hoki inaianei, tamata ki te arotahi ki runga i te hanga hononga ki ētahi atu noa hoki ngahau me te auhoaraa. Ki te tukua e koe ki a koe hei atu māhorahora, maoro, e tutaki fakanatula koutou te tangata ki ta e koe kia ngā. I taua wāhi, ka tino whai koe ki te waiho to koutou rohe whakamarie, me te kia koutou hiahia arahi i te ara.

Taunaha ki te kia atawhai ki tou tinana i teie nei i runga i, ka awhi i te ariā e tika koe ki te whai i pai ai. Ka taea e te tangata kotahi nga kia ātaahua ki tetahi atu. A e kore e manukanuka ki tirohanga kino hoa pea 'e pā ana ki to koutou noho takakau wā roa-: e kore koutou e whai ki te korero ki a ratou, engari ahakoa te mahi koe, maha nga tangata e amo noa i koutou paerewa teitei.

• Pamela Stephenson Connolly ko te hinengaro US-e hāngai ana motuhake i roto i disorders puremu.

• Ki te hiahia koe tohutohu i Pamela Stephenson Connolly i runga take fakasekisualé, tukua matou he whakamārama poto o koutou āwangawanga ki private.lives@theguardian.com (tēnā e kore e tukua āpitihanga). ia wiki, whiriwhiri Pamela kotahi raruraru ki te whakahoki, e ka e whakaputaina ipurangi me i roto i te tā. pouri ana ia e kore ia e ahei te tomo ki reta whaiaro.

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